A subscription service
You messed up. Subscribe to this.
We're even.
A monthly charge. A monthly reminder. Every time it hits, you'll remember. That's the point. That's the deal.
Subscribe at the appropriate level. You know which one.
Cancel when you've genuinely made it right.
They cancelled last minute. Again. Or they went quiet for three weeks. Or they did the thing — the specific thing you told them not to do.
You could hold a grudge. You could have a conversation. Or you could tell them: subscribe to this. We're good.
Every month the charge hits. Every month they remember. That's accountability with a paper trail.
The person who messed up. As a condition of forgiveness.
No. It disappears. That's what makes it a reminder and not a transaction.
Then you have your answer.
Until it feels right. You'll know.